As I sat around musing with friends the other day, the topic of conversation drifted to familiar territory as we spoke of financial security and how well it cooperates with life’s dreams. Even with infinite financial resources one is still limited by the day to day rigors of life, particularly the method by which finances are attained. The crowd, made up of a fireman, a teacher, a lawyer, an accountant and a factory worker each had opinions on their work life balance. The teacher offered that she had the most rewarding job of the lot. Not because she is paid particularly handsomely or the joy of educating the youth, but all the time off is fantastic! The others in the group added their thoughts on things. The lawyer, while being paid a handsome salary works 80 hours a week and is basically available 24/7 tethered to his technology leash. The accountant and the factory worker are paid the same and work approximately the same number of hours each day, but the accountant must deal with strenuous deadlines and limited availability to ever enjoy a holiday. The factory worker has no air conditioning. The fireman stepped up and argued that his job is way better than a teacher because he is not paid for what he does, rather what he is prepared to do. It all boiled down to one conclusion. Winning the lottery would be the way to go.
How nice would it be to wake up every day with the goal of making each day great? There would be no worry about how the bills would be paid or whether there was an assignment at work that needed your attention. If you wanted to fly across the world, no problem, enjoy yourself. You could actually do what made you happy and be paid for this. It would not be waking up to a job you loathe, knowing that the boss will not be able to accommodate your request for a holiday even though you have 3 weeks of PTO time saved up (that expires at the end of the year). Every day you spend working for the weekend or looking forward to that week a year that you actually go out of town.
Therefore, I must say that if you win the lottery and remain at your job, you are a jerk. If you cannot find a better way to make you and your family happy, then quit. This does not mean you cannot have investments, but make your ventures fun. Get yourself involved in running a golf course or some other job that would bring a smile on your face everyday. Also make sure that your family is having a good time.
I am reaching out to all of my fellow humans and corporate interests. If you agree with what I am saying and have money to throw around, help a guy out. I would love to make a living by keeping a public diary of my adventures. I would be happy waking up each day and getting to play with my daughter, until it was time for daddy to write his blog. I would also be happy to wake up each day in an exotic location enjoying my life.
I may not have the noblest intentions, but I can guarantee you that if anyone sponsors my life I will embrace any new challenge. I will accept cash or trips or even your input. If you are calling me lazy you are really missing the point. I am just afraid I will be working away all the great parts of my life, waiting for a retirement that I may not live to see. If you are living this kind of good life and respect my attitude get in touch.